A Passing

Ray Matthieu, one of our cousins from the Greenhalgh family branch, has passed away. Ray Matthieu was a great nephew to “Grandma Riley” (Margaret E. Greenhalgh Riley 1876-1962).

Raymond S. Matthieu

 

His Obituary follows:

“Raymond S. Matthieu Jr. passed away Sunday May 17th with his family by his side, at his home in Attleboro, MA.  He was 71.

Ray was born in Pawtucket RI, the son of the late Raymond S. and Margaret (Greenhalgh) Matthieu.  He grew up in the Pinecrest neighborhood of Pawtucket and attended Pawtucket Vocational high school.

Ray was a decorated veteran who served in the U.S. Army 82nd Airborne from 1967 to 1969.  During that time, he saw active duty in Vietnam and was awarded the Bronze star before his honorable discharge.  For many years, Ray served as a firefighter and EMT for the city of Pawtucket.  In 1989, he was honored by the Pawtucket City Council for his heroism in saving the life an unconscious elderly resident from a large apartment building fire.  Later, Ray enjoyed working as a bus driver for RIPTA where he drove routes in Newport, RI.

Ray was an avid athlete and elite runner, having run in several marathons and finishing in the top 200 of the 1986 Boston marathon with an astounding time of 2 hours 37 minutes.  A long-time hockey player and devoted member of Rhody Oldies hockey league in Pawtucket, he delighted in playing his favorite sport with his closest friends.

Ray is survived by his wife Jean, his sons Raymond [Trisha] Matthieu and Mark [Li] Matthieu, his step-sons Timothy [Sally] Doyle and Kevin Doyle, his beloved grandchildren Ian and Neve, and his devoted dog Molly.

Respectfully, Ray’s services will be private.”

I went to St Leo’s Grammar School with Ray, and saw him in and around Pawtucket all through our high school years. Ray was really a nice guy who always called me “Cuz.”

Rest In Peace, Cuz.

Memorial Day Connection

Given that today is Memorial Day, and since this National Day of Remembrance has its origins back to the time of the Civil War, I thought you would enjoy viewing the attached photo.

John Greenhalgh in his Civil War uniform (circa 1863)

John Greenhalgh (1845-1907) was “Grandma Riley’s (Margaretta Greenhalgh Riley (1876-1962) father, which makes him my great-grandfather.

May he Rest In Peace

[I have “borrowed” the image from Erik Volk, a fellow Ancestry member who has done research on the Greenhalgh family.]

Born on this date – Mar. 15th

Andrew Greenhalgh was born on this day in 1879 in Lonsdale, Rhode Island to the late Margaret Cullen (1848-1915) and the late John Greenhalgh (1845-1907).

This is the first time that a Greenhalgh has been featured in this blog. Why so? Well, one of Andrew’s five siblings was Marguetta E. (Greenhalgh) Riley (1876-1962), known by most of the older, present day Rileys as Grandma Riley.

Uncle Andrew Greenhalgh and his sister, Marguetta E. Riley

As best as I can remember, Uncle Andrew was “a presence” at #19-21 Pond Street. After checking the census records and the city directories, it appears Uncle Andrew began living with the Pond Street Rileys sometime in 1935. He remained in-residence, and an integral part of the family, until his death in 1962.

However during World War II, Uncle Andrew spent time in Waterbury, Connecticut. At the age of 61, Andrew went there to work in a factory in support of the War effort. A printer by trade, he utilized those skills in his factory job. At the time, Andrew lived with his fellow workers in an open dormitory type setting at the Waterbury Boys’ Club.

Back in the early 1940’s, working toward the War effort was the routine. What made Uncle Andrew’s effort noteworthy was his physical handicap. When he was a child, Andrew fell off the back of a tip cart

For those of you unfamiliar with what a tip cart looked like.

and severely injured his right leg, resulting in a permanent handicap. For the rest of his life, his leg was encased in a heavy metal brace that ran from just above his knee to the bottom of his shoe. It looked like it weighed a ton.

The brace may have slowed him down a bit, but didn’t stop him. Uncle Andrew’s prized possessions were his huge cars fully equipped with hand controls. If I remember correctly, he braked with his left leg, while the speed and shifting were controlled with hand levers. His automobiles always had lots of chrome and large, decorative continental kits hanging off the back. The cars had lots of color and personality, something that some say Uncle Andrew lacked.

When I was growing up, whenever there would be a reference to Andrew, the referring phrase would always be, “Poor Uncle Andrew.” It was said in obvious sympathy, because of the physical struggles he endured. Through the years, Grandma Riley, along with Marion and Gertie, really went to great lengths to support and encourage him. Being a printer by trade, and never owning his own business, his financial well-being wasn’t the best. He was supported and augmented financially by his nieces Marion and Gertie. It was very typical of his two kind nieces.

In 1962, on a Sunday morning, a couple of weeks after Uncle Andrew’s passing, the task of going through his belongings fell to his nephews, Patrick J. and Francis C. Riley. There weren’t many clothes and just a few personal items. At the foot of his bed was an old trunk, which his two nephews had to pry open with a hammer and screwdriver. As they were sorting through the last of his worldly possessions, the sympathetic and endearing phrase of “Poor Uncle Andrew” took an unsuspected twist. Low and behold, the trunk held some neatly tied stacks of cash! Seems Poor Uncle Andrew had been stashing away cash for a rainy day – or year. The exact amount may have been north of $30,000. The then, laughing brothers turned the money back over to Marion and Gertie…heck, it was probably their own money.

Poor Uncle Andrew.

Born on this date – July 27th

Marguetta E. Greenhalgh (“Grandma Riley”) (July 27, 1876 – June 10, 1962), was born in North Providence, RI. Her father, the late John Greenhalgh (1845 – 1907) was born in New York City. The Greenhalgh family roots can be traced through Lancashire in the northwest of England. Grandma’s mother, the late Margaret Cullen/Cullon was born in Waltham, MA in 1848. Interesting note on John Greenhalgh, he served in the Union Army during the Civil War.

Marguetta married Patrick Leo Riley (1875-1955) in 1898 and had eight children: Kathleen (1899-1988), Patrick J. (1900-1985), Marion R. (1902-1993), Gertrude C. (1904-1999), Rosanna (1908-1910), Margaret E. (1910-1989), William L. (1912-1985) and Francis C. (1915-2005).

Grandma Riley was blessed with a strong personality and a commanding presence that, in retrospect, was what the family needed to establish itself in the first part of the 20th century. It wasn’t easy back then, but she was the commander and held them all together.

Grandma Riley outside the back door of 19 Pond Street. c1950
Grandma Riley outside the backdoor at 19 Pond Street c1950.
From left to right Bill, Margaret,Marion, Francis, Patrick, Kathleen and Gertrude with Grandma Riley sitting.
Three generations sitting around at Aunt Kathleen’s house in Foxboro, MA.

Born on this date –

Patrick Leo Riley was born on June 7, 1875 in Pawtucket, RI, his father, Patrick, was 40 and his mother, Rose, was 32. He married Marguetta E. Greenhalgh in 1898. They had eight children in 16 years, Patrick Leo died on April 7, 1955 in Pawtucket at the age of 79.

Patrick Leo and Marguetta taken after their wedding in 1898.
Patrick L and Marguetta taken on September 11, 1938

His sister, Rose Riley was born on June 7, 1887 in Pawtucket, RI. At the time of her birth, her father (Patrick) was 52 and her mother, Rose was 42. Rose never married and lived her life in Pawtucket. She was 85 years old at the time of her death on April 5, 1973 and was living at 181 South Bend Street. See the attached item.

Incorrect spelling of her mother’s maiden name. Correct spelling is Kieran.